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The Four Lies You'll Tell Yourself On New Years Eve

Have you ever noticed how many good, honest, hardworking people turn into liars at New Year? It 's an amazing thing to see how people from all walks of life, all ages and both sexes go through' what 'resolution of the year again, and tell lies about what the next 12 months will bring them. You know what I mean. Probably you did right? 11:59 on New Year's you turn to a loved one and say: "This year will be different. I'm really going to achieve some great things!" and for that moment, a moment in time, of course. It is serious! You are fired up, impatient to go and ready, willing and (despite his glass of champagne in hand) are able to commit to the new diet, getting that new job or PayRise, from that company, writing that book and all a number of other large things.Then to emit the sound of bells in the new year and a funny thing happens.January 1 st rolls around and, while the goals are still in your head, do not seem so important anymore. (Maybe it's the champagne?) January 2 comes and by lunchtime you're saying that some of your goals are 'just silly fantasies' and they scratch the list.January 3 arrives and, despite a much shorter list of what had only two days before you start telling yourself that "I have all year to do this. do not need to start now. I just have to settle in 'to the first year and' ordered me 'and then I work on my objectives "As I said, all the lies, in fact, there are four of them ... Lie number one: 'This year will different'The truth of the matter is, for most people, even if it is sad that 2007 will be exactly the same as 2006 was.Why? Because their strategy is exactly the same as it was last year and, as the saying goes, if you keep doing what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got.Lie number two: 'The objectives do not appear anymore as 'Yes they are important! They are just as important as they were 24 hours ago it's just that somewhere at the bottom have begun to convince yourself that your goals are unattainable in some way and, if truth be known, are you afraid of not passing the sun instead of lying minor importance . their Lie number three: 'I'm just stupid fantasies'This is a continuation of the series but there are two far more damaging. With this lie did you start to rationalize and justify why your goals are impossible, and use all kinds of excuses disguised as 'reasons' to explain why your goals are realistic ... the biggest lie of all Lie number four: I do not give, I just need to return to work or school in the stream before 'I'm happy and get a large sorted'What This is a lie!' I attack these kind of goals' of lie that is used to delay things until the time is right.But wait a minute ... There was work, school or your other favorite excuse why you could not before New Year to reach your goals? No, you are number four is simply a tactic of delay, which are 'one day' we all tell ourselves to go out to act when we know we could, when we know we should. You know, 'one day when I have more time ...' or 'one day when I have more money ...' (Or whatever you use to delay your goals). Whatever your excuse 'One day', the results are the same ... zero! Now, if you've read this far you're probably recognize many of these lies you told as those in the past, and perhaps even those yet I tell you now. But, like most people, you have no real idea of ​​how to get rid of the habit of creating "wish lists and then lie because he did not come true.In short, so you're not really sure how the 2007 was better than 2006 . Well, if that's the case then you definitely need to keep reading, because I'm about to plot a strategy so simple yet so highly effective, if applied as I have described (the important bit) simply can not be bet fail.Interested that you are! Well, here's the thing. Requires six 6.Follow steps.Just all seriously big things happen for you, and you're missing a final on your goals. that.Ok I can not put any clearer, here is the successful in 6 simple, simple, easy-to-understand steps: 1 Know what you want2. Knowing why you want It3. Know when you want By4. down5 Write it. Knowing price6. ITIF pay your first reaction to that list is a of 'is that all?' then you underestimate the power of simplicity to achieve great things.you see that these steps, while simple, really be the most powerful strategy for achieving the objectives of the planet. You will be hard to find a single successful person on this planet that is not committed to using these six points on a daily basis basis.1. Knowing what you want sounds really obvious, but ask what they want most from their diet to achieve, plan their exercise, their careers and even their lives, and you get the vague generalities best.Let 's be clear about this, things like "lose weight" or "get fit" or "earn more" are not re goals.They' no, I am simply desires that are so vague and devoid of meaning that can pretty much guarantee that you will fail.A real goal, the other hand, is very clear indeed. It tells you exactly what you're setting your sights on the meaning that it has always been a point of reference to how close or how far you are to complete such manometterlo.Per 'lose weight' becomes 'loose 30 pounds' or 'weigh exactly 120 pounds'. 'Fit' becomes 'run a marathon' or 'do 50 pushups' and 'earn more' becomes' earn $ 100.000 a year after tax'See the difference? One is open and allows for an apology and exit clauses, while the other hangs the target in plain view that allows you to measure your current level of success and adjust the course as appropriateSo, just what you want? 2 Know Why you want it never ceases to amaze me-I think people will be happy to set targets that does not really matter that much to say about.They 'I'm going to do this' or 'I'm going to do that' but when you ask them why they can not explain it.This is the surest sign that a goal is doomed to failure and is a definite warning sign you should look out for when setting its goals.You see a goal, any goal, it is nothing without the desire to nurture in action and, in turn, the desire can not exist without a strong WHY 'behind it not just any. WHY.It gets old but the 'real' why put any real power in your goals.Let give me an example, I coached a lady earlier this year that, for many years had struggled with her weight. has set targets all the time, sometimes joined them, but time has discovered that almost all hastened regressed back to bit her historical significance and often added an extra in bargain.When asked why I wanted to lose weight she looked at me incredulously, as if you were really stupid. "Can not you see how they are overweight? Is not it obvious? "" So are many people, "I replied," but this does not explain why you want to lose weight. "" Because I want to fit most beautiful clothes, "he replied," I want to make things beautiful " "Why? "" Because prettier clothes will make me look more beautiful, "he said with his discomfort is becoming evident." Why is it so important? "I went away." Because ... "(She began to cry now)" ... I feel bad the way I am now .... "He continued:" ... and I want to feel so beautiful that I can meet someone and i will only ... I want someone to love me ... "and flowed.Now tears, you could be sitting there 'poor girl' thought and wondered why she had to be tested to try to help her with only one goal. It might also seem cruel to way.Well some, let me finish the story and let you decide for the moment the coaching session yourself.From ended, this lady has started an incredible metamorphosis.She lost 50 pounds above (and is quietly losing more), it seems more happy, you feel happier and now has a relationship with someone who loves her like her not long ago crazy.I asked: "What was the turning point? What changed everything for you? "And his answer was simple" I stopped lying to. I told the truth about why I wanted to lose weight, and I just realized that I have not only lose weight but I have to, if I was ever going to be happy "This is what happens WHY 'is for goals.It I take all your life and turns them into things that MUST, tracks and when the magic begins.You see, the things you could do and things you should do 't anywhere near as powerful as the things that have power must them.Once behind you can take your level of must and should no longer look for reasons, justifications and excuses or other 'out clauses' and instead focuses doing things should be in YOUR happen.Turn you must define WHY 'you want your goals3. What know when you want without a goal from a completion date is like a book without words it.It' s meaningless.Until defines the time scale that is complete Letting any data goal is simply going back to '' lie, and 'one day it would be nice if ..' wishes that most people make.In effect, you are giving an excuse for inaction, and, as you are well aware, no s nothing changes.That Action 'for this, every time you know what you want and why you want it MUST set a date for it. This adds a sense of urgency to your goal and forces purely the feeling that "every second matters' which, in reality, does.You so you get to measure whether your goals are in the program or behind schedule and, if necessary, exactly what it will take actions to bring back the track.So, WHEN you want your goals come alive for you? 4 Write down your goals There is a defined sequence to take a goal from concept to reality and can be best summed up in three words.Thought - Word-ActionUp now we had to do with the thinking and deciding what you want, because you want it and when you want to be. This is all work and mentally, while critical to achieving your goals, is in itself not enough to bring your goals to reality.You could say that, until At this point, you have a wish or a dream more clearly defined, but which, however, is still a dream.To taken from a dream to become reality in some way, either verbally realizing in words or, better yet, writing is down.It 's been proven that the act of simply writing down your goals increases the likelihood of achieving them down from anything from 500% to 5000% and that the reading of those words out loud on a daily basis, even more times daily, increases in efficiency and effectiveness further.Certainly every successful person I have ever met or interviewed has told me that not only have a written list of objectives, but they read them several times a day and many leading their list with them at all times.Why works? Well, it's simple really. you're remembering that your goal is important to you. More than that, it is established thought patterns that turn into habits, habits which turn into actions and actions which, if done regularly, will ultimately lead to your goals.5. Knowing Many people begin proper price-setting goals, know what they want, because they want, when they want it and by also write their goals on paper and yet, despite doing everything right up to this point, you find that make no real progress towards the achievement of them.I think this is why we do not think about the cost to achieve their objectives in advance, so when it comes time to pay, I'm shocked, stunned and did not want to do so.The truth is that every goal has a price to be paid.It could be financial, it might be time, could be a change in lifestyle, could be a cost or any number of things, but I assure you, there will be a price.Certainly early in my career (and even now, to a lesser extent) my determination to have their business to become a journalist and television presenter writer meant I had to pay the price of longer working hours, less time with my family and a high degree of financial risk.That what the price.I did not have to pay, but then, if I did I would not have achieved my goal. My choice.What is the price of your goal? Understanding this hour in advance, so that you can decide before you start or not the cost is too steep and if so, set another goal that you can live with and be happy again 0.6. Pay The Price-hand in hand with five steps is the obvious step of paying the price.It gets its own category because, unlike knowing the price, is paying for ongoing investments that we must consciously make every day until you reach yours. What we are talking about is the consistent day by day, step by step ACTION that many people are simply not willing to take. Sure, out of the gate well, they are motivated to achieve their goal, but, well, as soon as a little in between. A day does not take any action towards their goals, then two, then three and before you know it , is to fall from wayside.What happened? They stopped paying the price.Here 's the thing most people do not get; If you paid the price, and paying the price and paying the price for days, weeks, months and even years, then one day you wake up and stop paying the price that every single payment that you have wasted. A waste of time.A waste your waste your money.A effort.A waste of your life! see , the only possible way to get your investment back is to reach the goal. Anything less than that throwing away a piece of your life.This might sound a bit 'over the top, but is paying the true price. Once you start, be with the goal until it is time to read the achieved.Thankyou four lies that tell the New Year and the six things you can do to make your best year ever.I have in 2007, In this short article, did my best to convey the exact steps that are necessary in order to obtain bigger and better things than they did in 2006 but, as in all things, what actually happens to you in 2007 is totally you.you could brush this off as an interesting read little or as something that 'you go around', but, as I prepared for you here, it would simply be to continue to lie to themselves and in the long run, lead on the failure of your alternative goals.The follow the 6 steps provided for you.not kinda, not kind, almost but not exactly follow them and see what happens you.Now, in particular I can not guarantee what will be, but I know that will be something great and that whatever your goals are, they will be much closer to being realized you.The choice is yours as to which route to take, but I do know this: one of these choices leads to failure and the other Certain, subs. Certain You now know ... What is the What 's time to choose! [EXTRACT] Have you ever noticed how many good, honest, hard working people to be liars at New Year? It' s an amazing thing to see how people from all social classes, all ages and both sexes, through the resolution of all the New Year "thing" going to tell lies about themselves, what the next 12 months them.You know what I mean. Probably you did it yourself or? 23.59 clock on New Year's address to a loved one and say: ". This year will be different I'm really going to accomplish some great things "and for that moment, a moment in time, of course. Really, you're up, fired the starting blocks and ready and willing to engage (in spite of the glass of champagne in hand) are able, in this new diet, or PayRise get that new job that companies are starting to write this book and lots of other great things.Then sound the bells sounding around the new year and a funny thing happens . January first and sandwiches, while the goals are still in your head, no longer seem so important. (Maybe it's the champagne?) January 2 it's time for lunch and still say that some of your goals are "just fantasies stupid "and scratch your list.January third comes from, and despite a much shorter list than what they had only 2 days before you start saying that" I have all year to do it. I did not start immediately. I just wish the first part of "make do" and "Get me sorted 'and! Then I'll work on my goals," As I said, is all this is that there are four of them ... Lie number one: "This year will different'The truth of the matter is to be for most people, even if it 's sad is that 2007 will be exactly the same as in 2006 was.Why? Because their strategy is exactly the same as it was last year and, as the saying goes, if you keep doing what you've always done, you'll always get what you always got.Lie number two: "The objectives anymore'Yes not seem so important! They are just as important as they were only there 24 hours ago that started somewhere at the bottom you convince yourself that your goals are unattainable, and somehow, if the truth be known, you have such bad anxiety, rather than on Their number importance.Lie are three: "I'm just stupid fantasies'This is a continuation of lie number two, but much more damaging. From this lie you must rationalize and justify why your goals are not possible and use all kinds of excuses as "reasons" why your goals are unrealistic disguises ... the biggest lie of all there are four numbers: "I sorted'What settle in and get a big lie, this is an 'I do not I surrender, I just need to get back into the river to work or school before taking these goals' kind of lie you have to postpone things until the time runs out use right.But wait a minute ... did not work, school, or your favorite excuse the reason why you could not achieve your goals before New Year? No, you are number four is simply a delaying tactic, the lie 'one day' we all tell us to act, if we can know when you need to know. You know, 'One day, when I have no more time ... "Or" one day when I have more money ... "(Or what ever you use to delay your goals). Regardless of your" one day "excuse, the results are the same ... Zero! Well, if As you are probably recognize many of these lies than those who have said yourself that you read in the past, and perhaps even those who say that you are still even now. But how many people have no real idea on how to quit the habit to create "wish lists" free and then lie, because it did not come true.In short, you're not really sure how to do better than in 2007 was.Well 2006, if this is the case, then you are definitely keep reading because I'm a strategy so simple yet so highly effective that if I applied for a job (describe the most significant bit) simply can not fail.Interested? I bet you are! Well, here's the thing. It requires 6 steps 6.Follow . Just all the serious things of great will happen for you, Miss, and is a game on your goals. I can not even clear how that.Ok, success is to be understood easily in 6 simple, straightforward, step 1 knowing what that want2. Why do you want It3. Know when you want By4. down5 Write it. Do you know the price6. ITIF Pay Your first reaction is one in this list, "all this? 'Then you are underestimating the power of simplicity in achieving great things.you see that these passages, while easy to do, really, the most powerful strategy for achieving the goals are on the planet. There will be difficult to find a single successful person on this planet that does not require the use of these six steps on a daily basis.1. know what you really want-seems obvious, but ask almost anyone what they want to achieve from their diet, their exercise plan their careers and even their lives, and you will get vague generalities at best.Let 's be clear about this, things like "lose weight" or "fit" or "earn more" are not re goals.They 'no! They are just like that are so vague and meaningless that more or less to ensure that they fail.A real goal is, on the other side is very clear indeed. Tell us exactly what your eyes on what it means to always have a reference point, how close or how far you are from a complete 'off' with this to 'lose 30 pounds "or" weighs just 120 kg.' "Get Fit" is to "run a marathon" or "less than 50 push-ups" and "earn more" is "to earn $ 100,000 a year after tax'See the difference? An indefinite time and allows excuses and get out clauses, while the other is the goal in plain sight so you can gauge your current level of success and adjust the course as appropriateSo, just what is what you want? According Knowing why you do not want- ever ceases to amaze me that people are happy to set targets that are not really that much to say about.They: "I'll do this 'or' I will," but when asked to explain why they can not it.This is a plus sure a goal is doomed to failure and is a clear warning signs to look out for when you see your own goals.You a goal, any goal can be nothing without the desire to refuel in action and can not turn the request without a reason behind every strong WHY.It it.but not the "real" because to do a real power in your goals.Let put me give you one there For example, I treated a lady who was struggling earlier this year for many years with his weight. You can set goals all the time, sometimes reaching almost every time, but soon discovered that he regressed back to their old weight, and often adds a little 'more in bargain.When I asked him why he wanted to get them looked at me in disbelief as I was really stupid. "Can not you see how they are overweight? Is not it obvious? "" So many people, "I replied," but this does not explain why you want to lose weight. "" Because I want to mount beautiful clothes, "he replied," I want to bring good things to "," Why? "" Why do nice clothes me is more beautiful, "she said in her distress become increasingly clear." Why is it important? "I went away." Because ... "(He started to cry now)" ... I feel bad, as I am now .... "He continued:" ... and I really like the feeling to know someone and I'm not alone ... I want someone who loves me ... "and the tears had flowed.Now, you can stand there thinking" poor girl "and wonder why they are included in the course of this test only to help you set a goal. It might also seem way.Well some cruel, let me finish the story and let sit for yourself.From decide when the coaching session has ended, the lady began an amazing 50 pounds lost in metamorphosis.She (and still is to lose more), it seems happy, you feel happier and now has a relationship with someone who loves them as crazy.I was not long ago asked, "What was the turning point, what has changed everything for you?" and his answer is been easy. "I felt I was telling the truth about why I wanted to lose weight, and once I did I realized that not only lose weight but I have to, if I do not ever be happy," This is what goals. Why should it all in your life and transforms them into things must happen, and that when the magic begins.You see, things to do and unfortunately are things you should do 't nearly as powerful as the things that have the power them.Once behind you could have your own, and should be based on the level of must not look for reasons, justifications and excuses or other get-out clauses "and instead to focus things are happen.Turn This is, however, the definition of must, because you want your goals3. know when by-A goal without a completion date I want to be like a book without words it.It 's meaningless.Until define the length of time that you allow yourself a goal back just to use a complete' one day and the "would not be nice if you want .." is that people make.In effect, you give yourself an excuse for inaction and as you know, without action is changes.That anything because every time you know what you want and why you need to do to get an appointment. This adds a sense of urgency to your goal and reinforces the feeling that "every second counts," which in reality, but also get far does.You if you have your goals on track or delayed and, if necessary, exactly what steps will be taken until you return to track.So, when you want your goals to come alive to you? 4 wishes. Write down your goals is a certain order is to take a hit from idea to reality, and can best be summed up in three words.Thought - Word ActionUp far we have dealt with the idea and decide what you want because you want it and when you want it to be. This is all mental work and, while critical to achieving your goals is in itself not enough to bring your goals to reality.You could say that, up to this point, you have a desire or dream more clearly defined, but However it is still a dream.To take from a dream, he needs to be real in some small way, or verbalizing of words or, better yet, write down.It 's been shown that the simple act of writing down your goals increases probability of their realization by anything from 500% to 5000% and reading these words aloud on a daily basis, even several times a day also increases the effectiveness further.Certainly every successful person I have ever met or interviewed me said that not only have a written list of objectives, but read countless times a day, and many carry their list with them at all times. Why does it work? Well, it's really easy. you see, remember that your goal is important to you. In addition to this, you establish patterns of thinking, customs, habits, actions and activities that if you regularly lead, ultimately, contact your goals.5. Turn out the price, many people begin to set goals properly, know what they want, because they want when they want, their goals and writing them on paper, yet, in spite of doing everything right up to this point, they find they never achieve any real progress in them.I think this is because the cost often do not have to reach their goals and think ahead when it comes time to pay, I'm shocked, stunned and do not provide so.The truth is that each goal has a price that could be his paid.It financial need may it may be time, there could be a change of lifestyle, it could cost to have a relationship, or any number of things, but I assure you, if there is a price.Certainly to start my career (and still today to a lesser extent) my determination, my own business to have a journalist, television presenter and author wanted to say is that I need to pay a price for more hours at work, less time with my family and a high degree of financial risk. That the price.I did not have to pay for it, but if I did I would not have achieved my goal. My choice.What is the price of your goal? understand it now, in advance, so you can decide first if the cost is too steep and if you want to set another goal, that you can live and still be happy to start at 0.6. had to pay the price for it in hand with five step is the obvious step of paying the price.It gets its own category, because otherwise you know the price you pay is an ongoing investment that you make must be aware, every day, until The goal is for you. What we are talking about is the day to day consistently, step by step ACTION that many people simply are not ready take.Sure, are well out of the gate, are motivated to reach their goal, but, well, just a little 'how to get in the way. One day that will take no action toward their goals, then two, then three, and before you know it, the goal is dropped from wayside.What happened? They stopped paying the price.Here 's what most people do not get, if you have already paid the price and pay the price and pay the price for days, weeks, months and even years, then pay one day you wake up and stop the price of each payment was a waste. a waste waste waste waste time.A money.A effort.A of your life! You see, the only way, maybe you get back your investment is to achieve the goal. Everything, but this is to throw away a piece of your life.This might sound a bit 'too much, but it is true.Once begin paying the price to remain with the goal until achieved.Thankyou the time to read the four There is talk that lies on the eve of New Year and the six things you can do to make your best year ever.I in 2007, in this short article, did my best to provide the exact steps needed to achieve for you to get bigger and communicate better to do than you did in 2006 but, as in all things, what actually happens to you in 2007 is entirely up to you.you can wipe it away as an interesting read, or just something you go around ', but , as I have for you here to do so would simply continue to lie to themselves and, in the long run, the failure to bring your goals.The other alternative is to follow the 6 steps designed to actually you.not kinda not sort, but most will not follow him closely and see what happens you.Now, I can not guarantee, in particular, what will be, but I know there will be something great and that whatever your goals are, will be much closer to you.The choice is yours to be true, which way to take you to be, but I know one of these decisions leads to certain failure, or success. Now you know what is what ... It 's time for you to choose!

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